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Wednesday, November 19, 2025

Anxiety and Thanksgiving cannot occupy the same space

 

Read Psalm 100

 

All at once, the past, present, and future walked into a bar. It was a tense moment.

Did you hear about the claustrophobic astronaut? He just needed a little space!

 Have you heard this one? The safest place that you can be is in the will of God. More on that later.

Have you ever tried that thing where you pat your head and rub your belly? Maybe it’s the other way around. Most of us can do this for a few seconds and then we go into this Mambo dance sort of thing with arms flailing.

I know very few people who can do this. I can’t say all. You might have to train your whole life to do this for 5 minutes. Some try and try but still can’t get it in sync.

In practicality, most really can’t do both. I will have to say that my data on this is minimal and might not survive the law of small numbers test. C’mon, it just doesn’t come up in conversation that much.

Then why did you put us through that quasi montage of patting and rubbing?

Fair enough. Now try being anxious and thankful at the same time.

Now try being anxious and thankful at the same time.

Somebody is saying, “I can do that. I do it all the time!”  The odds makers in Vegas love people like that. That preacher is not telling me what I can and can’t do.

You are correct. I am saying that you should try this for yourself. Those self-discovered epiphanies carry more weight in your life choices anyway. Give it a try.

Some like those who are dead set to do the patting and rubbing will put this to the test. I’ll show that preacher. I’ll be anxious and thankful at the same time. I will show him.

And you can do both with an extreme amount of effort and maybe then you can juxtapose the two for a very short time—a very short time until they repel like same poled magnets.

The return on that investment of effort is sort of like paying for a 14 bedroom 9 ½ bath, 4 garage, two swimming pool with indoor and outdoor hot tubs dream home—mansion—and getting a 1966 Ford Esquire station wagon with who knows how many miles as the odometer does register anymore, it sometimes (2-3 times as year) might start with a jump, the windows are frozen down in the winter and up in the summer with no air conditioning, there’s no power steering fluid as the receptacle won’t hold it, and oh by the way, what you are paying for is a 2 hour rental of this beauty. That was also my college car for 2 years.

For those who are practiced in the art and science of thinking and can run consequences and sequels through their minds as they contemplate harboring anxiety and thanksgiving in the same place, you know how this comes out. Some of you may have to do the exercise this week.

Others have eyes to see that those two—anxiety and thanksgiving—don’t play together. It’s one or the other, or as in the ancient Spence household, it was one or tuther.

Some of you will have to try this yourselves, but I am going to proffer this without waiting for your exercise. You can’t be anxious and thankful at the same time.

You can’t be anxious and thankful at the same time!

Rick Warren—the Purpose Driven Life author and Saddleback church pastor—says if you can worry, you can pray.  You can worry and pray at the same time, but your prayers would lack trust.

It’s like telling God, “I think I got myself into something this time that’s bigger than you are.”

God told me many times in his word not to worry or be anxious.

Do you ever wonder if God uses any of our modern terms to explain things? I don’t think he does. He calls pastors and teachers to do this. Since Jeremiah took the potter and the clay, let’s try something nautical.

Have you ever been on a big ship?  Let’s get some nautical basics.  Hold up your left hand. That’s port. Now hold up your right. That’s starboard.

The rear of the ship is aft. The front is fore. That’s easy.

Where the ship comes to a point in the front, usually a few decks, that’s called the bow.  This is the “I’m the king of the world” spot on the ship. It’s the forward-most point of a ship, right?

Actually, not. OK, all I can see in front of me is the ocean and the air, not a ship.

That does not mean it’s not there. Has anyone ever heard of the bulbous bow? It’s a forward projecting, generally cylindrical part of the ship that protrudes from the ship.

I have never seen that. That’s because it’s underwater. It makes breaking waves much easier as the ship moves forward.

That’s cool, but if you think we are going to general quarters or holding a man overboard drill, you’ve got another thing coming. What’s this got to do with thanksgiving?

There is a group of people in the church universal that often serves as the bulbous bow  for the body.  He is talking about the session, right?

Yes, but they are only a small part of it. I am talking about you and every other faithful servant of God who continues to gather in the assembly. We often make it easier for the rest of the church to come home—at least we should, and if you have been sleeping through the past few decades, many of those who have received the free gift of God have rejected the counsel of Hebrews and do not continue to gather.

Why is this important for us? We know those who do not gather are missing fellowship and assurance, and so much more. They are less disposed to discipleship. They are disobedient unto the Lord. We get that. We need to invite people to come and worship the Lord.

Why is this important for us? The lost need good news, but those saved by grace who do not gather need something else. What?

A stronger argument? More facts and figures? More snacks between services? More time to think it over.  A Connex box? If it actually is a Connex box, I have been the worst stumbling block ever! But that’s not it.

How about provocation?  We are supposed to provoke the disconnected. In our modern world, we have tried to emasculate this word and consider it a bad thing. If you provoke someone, you might cause a fight.  That’s what we have been indoctrinated to think. Let’s go to the verse right before the one that tells us not to stop gathering.

We will go with the New International Version first.

And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.

Now the King James Version.

And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works:

And now we go to the Revised Standard Version.

and let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works,

In earlier times, the word provoke meant to call forth. It could be to call forth thinking, action, confession, creativity, and, yes, anger. If you go to the original language, you get παροξυσμός, paroxusmos (par-ox-oos-mos').

We are to be people of action, not just for ourselves, but for the body of Christ as a whole. Here, specifically, the Bible talks about prompting, provoking, stirring up, or lighting a fire for those who have their salvation, but are not putting the word of the Lord into practice.

Why would they want to gather and worship God if what they see is worry and anxiety from those who are faithful in gathering? But, but, but… We have struggles too.

Yes, we do. We also have instructions. These are the same instructions other believers have, but who do not avail themselves of the iron sharpens iron establishment that we do.  Don’t worry. Be anxious for nothing. Take courage, Jesus has overcome the world.

We have challenges in the interrogative straight from Jesus. Who can add a single hour to our lives by worrying?

Let’s get to some scripture.

Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. That’s from the NIV

Here’s the King James Version.

Rejoice evermore.

Pray without ceasing.

In everything give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.

I looked at a bunch. I even did the Amplified Bible this time. It’s like scripture, commentary, and a message. That which is dynamic to the point of going beyond the strict translation is usually encapsulated in braces or brackets.

Rejoice always and delight in your faith; be unceasing and persistent in prayer; in every situation [no matter what the circumstances] be thankful and continually give thanks to God; for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus.

People should see thanksgiving in us. We who faithfully attend should be the most thankful people on the planet. These three translations vary somewhat but are very close in one thing.

This is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus.

What is his will? We always rejoice. We are always praying. We give thanks to God regardless of our circumstances. I like Horatio Spafford’s words; the Lord has regarded my helpless estate and shed his own blood for my soul.

Yes, sometimes we feel helpless, but in that helplessness, we give thanks. Why?

This is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus.

It’s one of those, because God said so, sort of deals. Be thankful all the time. That’s impossible. For us alone it is, but with God it is not.

But what about when we lose a loved one? What about when a loved one or anyone dies in war? What about those that we have lost?  Really, God, you want me to be thankful for that?

I know the stages of loss—denial, anger, bargaining, and acceptance. They don’t always come in that order, can be repeated, and move at a different pace for each person.  Thanksgiving is not one of the stages of loss…

But it should be in every stage.

This brings me to Memorial Day and a quote from George Patton. Yes, I went with an army guy this time. I’m weaning you off of Marine Corps analogies.

"It is foolish and wrong to mourn the men who died. Rather, we should thank God that such men lived."

We can always be thankful. But I said that we couldn’t do that on our own, only with God. That’s still correct, but who is receiving this message? To whom am I speaking?

I am most certainly talking to those who have professed Jesus as Lord and have the Spirit of God living within you. God is not only for you; he lives within you, and you can be thankful in all circumstances.

We can be thankful in all circumstances!

Much of the time, we view living the Christian life as striving for the unattainable. God said to do it this way, and we are striving to get as close as we can to the mark, knowing full well that our reach truly exceeds our grasp.

Except for rejoice always, pray all the time, and be thankful, whatever your lot in life is at the time. Be thankful in all circumstances.

This is God’s will for your life. So, for the rest of this month, I challenge you to provoke people who do not gather in the assembly of God’s people but who have professed Jesus is Lord, to come into the assembly and  love, serve, and worship their Lord.

But how? We have tried everything. Food giveaways. Trunk or Treat. Words on the wall. We haven’t done smoke coming out of the vents, yet. Please hold off a month on that one if you do try it.

How do we provoke, inspire, prompt, stir up, call forth or otherwise get those keeping company with the twin pagan gods of Apathy and Ambivalence to come into the assembly and worship with you and other believers? What will provoke them to action?

Thanksgiving!

People already see your serving the Lord. Do they see thanksgiving in you while you serve?  Do they? But, but, but, how can I be thankful when…

My boss is terrible. Be thankful. Your boss might stink, but you can be thankful you have a job.

The rent is past due. But you haven’t been evicted. The government’s laws and regulations give you some relief. Be thankful you are not on the street.

My kids are driving me crazy. Stop letting them drive. OK, they are metaphorically driving you crazy. I got it. Give thanks that you have children. They are a blessing, and as a bonus, you get to watch your grandchildren drive your own kids crazy. Be thankful that you have kids.

Maybe I can see that a little. I don’t know. None of these covers every situation and circumstance.

But this one does.

If you are not thankful, you are not living in the will of God.

You can’t say that! Who gave you that authority? You have got to retract that one!

You are right. I can’t say that on my own authority, but Paul can and he did.  If we live in the will of God, we will be thankful. Paul said:

This is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus.

Let me read that again, taking out the parts where Paul stuttered.

This is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus

If you believe that the safest place you can be is in the will of God, and that thanksgiving sits well at the center of that will, then when you are not thankful, you are not living in the will of God.

For those who want to hold on to your old selves, your comfort zones, your hate, your bitterness, your preferences in which your own understanding supplants the will of God, you are not living in the will of God.

OK, I can see that. I can’t be unforgiving or walk around with hate in my heart. I get that.

Good! Now add not being thankful to that list of things that are not in the will of God for you.

OK. I get it. May we wrap this up now?

Not without an action step towards thankfulness. This will be easy. You can pick up from where it ends as you live going forward. Let’s say Psalm 100 together. My subhead says: A psalm. For giving grateful praise.

Shout for joy to the Lord, all the earth.

   Worship the Lord with gladness;

    come before him with joyful songs.

Know that the Lord is God.

    It is he who made us, and we are his;

    we are his people, the sheep of his pasture.

Enter his gates with thanksgiving

    and his courts with praise;

    give thanks to him and praise his name.

For the Lord is good and his love endures forever;

    his faithfulness continues through all generations.

 Be thankful all of the time. Be in the will of God. Give thanks in every circumstance. This is doing things God’s way.

Amen.

Wednesday, November 20, 2024

Give Thanks!

 Read Psalm 100

Read Psalm 136

Like it or not, November will say goodbye shortly. Thanksgiving Day seems late this year. It’s almost December, and then a New Year.

I talk about being thankful all year long, but you get an extra dose at this time of year. We should have a surge effort of thanksgiving and praise on occasion or multiple occasions.

So many people think that when my life settles down—whatever that means—I will be ready to give thanks.

When my bills are all paid, and the kids have new shoes, then I can be thankful.

When the doctor says that I am healthy again, then I will praise the Lord.

When I can see the light at the end of the tunnel, I might be ready to thank God.

When I can afford an impulse buy every now and then without breaking the budget, I will be thankful and praise the Lord.

I will be thankful when I get around to it, and I have a lot to get done on my list first.

Let’s take a cue from the psalmist. We will look to Psalm 136 for the moment.

Give thanks to God. Why?

He is good.

His love endures forever.

He is the God of gods—the only true God.

He does great wonders. This whole creation thing has to be near the top of the list.

Heaven, earth, land and water, sun and moon, and other heavenly bodies all came into being by his breath. He spoke these into existence.

He delivered his people from bondage in Egypt. That was a series of mighty acts.

He parted the Red Sea and his people crossed it on dry land.  The same parted Red Sea did not treat the pursuing Egyptians so nicely.

He led his people through the wilderness until they were ready to enter the land that he promised Abraham as an inheritance. This took a while.

He struck down mighty kings that his people might prevail. He liberated his people.

God remembers us, even amidst the vastness of the universe.

He is the God of everything and remembers us even in our humble estate.

OK, the people back in the day had a lot for which they gave thanks. That was a long time ago.

I’ve got bills and medical appointments and parent-teacher conferences and have to work for some young guy with no experience and…

You can’t expect me to just give thanks because God rescued some people from slavery almost 3,500 years ago.  I have problems today.

There is a meme-related thought circulating online that goes something like this: Instead of focusing on what is happening to us and feeling helpless or wronged and feeling pitiful, focus on what God has already done for us. Focus on your blessings.

What then?  We should be better inclined to thanksgiving.

Give thanks to the God of gods. His love endures forever.

He made everything in creation. It all—including us—belongs to him.

Give thanks to the God who provides for everyone and everything.

OK, those always apply, but we need a Red Sea parting somewhere in our recent history.

Give thanks to the God who blessed you to be born in this most wonderful nation. We have our problems, and more are on the way, but we are blessed beyond what most of the world knows or imagines.

Give thanks to the God who blessed you to be born in this part of this most blessed nation. We still speak openly of our God and worship freely. We might face a mean comment or two when we express our faith online, but nobody is trying to kill us for professing Jesus as Lord.

Give thanks to the God who put us in the land of plenty, the land of everything modern, the land of modern milk and honey, and who loves us with an everlasting love.

Give thanks to the God who loves us so much that he gave his one and only Son that we might know real life and eternal life in him.

Give thanks to the God of gods who chose us to take his message to the world.

Give thanks to the one true God who is love.

Give thanks to God who is the Potter and shapes us in the likeness of his Son as if we were clay.

We must give thanks for our blessings, trials, and even the Lord's discipline. If it is from God, it is good for us. We may not understand it in the moment, but we should be thankful for it.

Our story goes back to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, as did the psalmist’s, but our story continues today with God's mighty acts in our time.

He is working with billions now, but he still knows us by name and has called us to him for his purposes. We don’t see Red Sea crossings but we see many saved from the slavery of sin and death. We see healing. We see the body of Christ helping the least of these brothers and sisters.

So many of God’s blessings are administered through the body of Christ in our time, including our own blessings.

We are blessed beyond our problems of the day, week, year, or decade.

We are blessed, and we should be thankful.

It’s not how big our problems are. It’s how big our God is, and that’s something for which we give thanks.

Give thanks.

Amen.

Thanksgiving and Praise

 Read Psalm 100


We know Psalm 136. Every stanza concludes with, “His love endures forever.” God's love endures forever.

The psalm begins and ends with “Give thanks to the Lord for he is good and Give thanks to the God of heaven.” The rest of the psalm tells of his mighty works.  We should be thankful that we are on the right side of his story. 

Some stood in opposition to God, but not for long and not with a good ending; yet the psalm doesn’t read, give thanks or you will be smote, or is it smitten? Maybe I should brush up on my fire and brimstone lexicon.

This is a psalm of thanksgiving.

Let’s try Psalm 107. “Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever.” The psalm continues with examples of God’s greatness, mercy, and lack of regard for anyone’s worldly status.

The psalm concludes by advising the wise person to meditate upon God and what he has done. If we did that we would find God to be sovereign, righteous, almighty, and the Author of a love that endures forever.

If we pondered all that God was and how he has regarded our humble estate, we would give thanks. We wouldn’t have a choice. Our very being would compel us to thanksgiving.

If we genuinely considered that almighty God has considered us worthy of his love, care, and salvation, only the most vile among us could reject the truth and not give thanks.

Let’s try Psalm 50. God tells his people that they checked the box with their livestock sacrifices, but God doesn’t need livestock. Everything in the earth belongs to God anyway. Give him a thank offering.

Sacrifice thank offerings to God,

    fulfill your vows to the Most High,

and call on me in the day of trouble;

    I will deliver you, and you will honor me.

More than the blood of goats or bulls—the shedding of blood is required for the forgiveness of sins—but more than that, the relationship with God that grows and is strengthened in thanksgiving is a better target.

The psalmist did not dismiss or discount the other sacrifices and offerings. To throw an anachronism into the mix, I will use Paul’s words. And yet, I show you the most excellent way.

What way? Thanksgiving.

Psalm 28 petitions God not to include the psalmist with the wicked. C’mon God, don’t abandon me or kick me to the curb. Like most psalms, this one moves from the struggle to the affirmation. Faith abounds in the Psalms.

Praise be to the Lord,

    for he has heard my cry for mercy.

The Lord is my strength and my shield;

    my heart trusts in him, and he helps me.

My heart leaps for joy,

    and with my song I praise him.

One of the telltale signs of thanksgiving is praising God.

So, thanksgiving and praise must be an Old Testament thing, right?

We have received Jesus as Lord and in him is our everything. Paul counsels us to be thankful. In fact, he says that we should be overflowing with thanksgiving.

Overflowing, now there a descriptor we should visualize.

Come, thou fount of every blessing, tune my heart to sing thy grace. Streams of mercy, never ceasing, call for songs of loudest praise.

Visualize a fountain overflowing with water. Now visualize a fountain overflowing with blessings.

Now visualize our most appropriate response to mercy, grace, and blessings—a fountain overflowing with thanksgiving and praise. Every blessing you pour out, I turn back to praise.

Consider Paul’s words to the church in Thessalonica.

Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

How many times is the word thanksgiving used in the Bible? More than 70 and perhaps more than that when we include other words of gratitude. It’s a big deal.

Yes, the word love appears more than 500 times and counsel against fear another 365 times, but if God through his word tells us something more than 70 times, we need to pay attention.

The grass withers, and the flowers fade, but the word of God endures forever. As his word does endure, don’t you think we should pay attention to something he tells us more than 70 times?

Thanksgiving is an American holiday. It is celebrated in other countries in similar and different ways. We have turned it into a feast, usually accompanied by football games and naps.

Thanksgiving for the believer must be more than turkey, dressing, and pecan pie. It must be our new nature as a new creation. We must give thanks at all times and in all circumstances.

That is who we are! We are a thankful people. We are a grateful people. We are people who praise the name of the Lord.

We are people in whom others should see the Lord through our love, thanksgiving, and praise.

I am close with words that should be familiar to us now. We know these words. They are not the only words concerning thankfulness, but let’s claim these just like we have the gospel that we find in John 3 or the proverb—trust in the Lord--that we know so well.

Let’s make Psalm 100 a part of who we are. Some might think, but it’s a lot longer.

Yes, but it has an idiom, a rhythm, a poetry to it that has not only survived translation but perhaps in enhanced by the language in which we read it today.

Shout for joy to the Lord, all the earth.

   Worship the Lord with gladness;

    come before him with joyful songs.

Know that the Lord is God.

    It is he who made us, and we are his;

    we are his people, the sheep of his pasture.

Enter his gates with thanksgiving

    and his courts with praise;

    give thanks to him and praise his name.

For the Lord is good and his love endures forever;

    his faithfulness continues through all generations.

 

Amen.

 

 

Saturday, November 11, 2023

One Returned

 Read Luke 17:11-19

Read Psalm 100

Lord, please help me with this month’s bills

Lord, please get my kids home safely.

Father God, please help my nephew overcome addiction.

Lord God Almighty, please don’t let me lose custody of my kids.

Jesus, Precious Jesus, help him pull through this operation.

God, I know you know my situation, please help.

What happens when somehow, the bills get paid?

What happens when somehow the kids all arrive safely?

What happens when the chains of addiction are broken?

What happens when you get to keep your kids?

What happens when the operation is successful?

What happens when the very thing you asked God for is delivered?

Is thanksgiving our first response or is it on to the next problem?

Is thanksgiving our continual response or is it a one-and-done?  C’mon God, I said thanks.

Do we awaken each morning thanking God that we have a roof over our heads and something to eat?

Do we consider in the course of our day that we are provisioned to live in this modern age?  We have electricity, a phone, a car or at least someone to give us a ride? Do we give thanks to God for these things that are so easily taken for granted?

Do we thank God that we had a job yesterday and it is still there today? We don’t have to go to a gathering place like day workers who hope someone will hire them.

Ten men had leprosy.  All ten were healed but when they realized they were healed, only one returned to give thanks to God.

That means that 9 out of 10 just went about their business.  Now that business was to make the sacrifice required by the law, but it was absent genuine thanksgiving.

That’s human nature.

Human nature leads us to just go through the motions, to just do the next thing, to live without giving much thought to thanksgiving.

Our nature as new creatures must always include thanksgiving.  Thanksgiving is a part of who we are now.

We are told that Satan has blinded unbelievers, but we are believers and we have eyes to see.  What do we see?

Blessings. In every direction and in most every circumstance we can see blessings.

I was playing golf one day in January with Jim Fisk and Ned Fite. If you can play golf in January in Oklahoma, that’s a blessing unto itself.

I had hit a terrible tee shot into the woods.  There was no good way back to the fairway.  Even if I hit back to the tee box, I would have to squeeze between trees.

Ned looked at my situation and remarked:  I always try to find one good thing about each shot.

I looked at him suspiciously and he continued:  The good thing here is that it’s not my shot.

Seriously, we have eyes to see blessings in most everything, even in our trials.  Because we can see God at work everywhere, we should be thankful.

We should give thanks.

We should be known as a grateful people who give thanks in all circumstances

Let us approach not only this month but every day with Thanksgiving.  Let us be known as thankful people.

Let us always look for reasons to thank God.

Let us conclude as we began this service with Psalm 100.

Shout for joy to the Lord, all the earth.

   Worship the Lord with gladness;

    come before him with joyful songs.

Know that the Lord is God.

    It is he who made us, and we are his;

    we are his people, the sheep of his pasture.

Enter his gates with thanksgiving

    and his courts with praise;

    give thanks to him and praise his name.

For the Lord is good and his love endures forever;

    his faithfulness continues through all generations.

Even if all others seem to just being going about their lives business as usual, let us be the ones to return and give thanks.

Amen.