Wednesday, November 19, 2025

Anxiety and Thanksgiving cannot occupy the same space

 

Read Psalm 100

 

All at once, the past, present, and future walked into a bar. It was a tense moment.

Did you hear about the claustrophobic astronaut? He just needed a little space!

 Have you heard this one? The safest place that you can be is in the will of God. More on that later.

Have you ever tried that thing where you pat your head and rub your belly? Maybe it’s the other way around. Most of us can do this for a few seconds and then we go into this Mambo dance sort of thing with arms flailing.

I know very few people who can do this. I can’t say all. You might have to train your whole life to do this for 5 minutes. Some try and try but still can’t get it in sync.

In practicality, most really can’t do both. I will have to say that my data on this is minimal and might not survive the law of small numbers test. C’mon, it just doesn’t come up in conversation that much.

Then why did you put us through that quasi montage of patting and rubbing?

Fair enough. Now try being anxious and thankful at the same time.

Now try being anxious and thankful at the same time.

Somebody is saying, “I can do that. I do it all the time!”  The odds makers in Vegas love people like that. That preacher is not telling me what I can and can’t do.

You are correct. I am saying that you should try this for yourself. Those self-discovered epiphanies carry more weight in your life choices anyway. Give it a try.

Some like those who are dead set to do the patting and rubbing will put this to the test. I’ll show that preacher. I’ll be anxious and thankful at the same time. I will show him.

And you can do both with an extreme amount of effort and maybe then you can juxtapose the two for a very short time—a very short time until they repel like same poled magnets.

The return on that investment of effort is sort of like paying for a 14 bedroom 9 ½ bath, 4 garage, two swimming pool with indoor and outdoor hot tubs dream home—mansion—and getting a 1966 Ford Esquire station wagon with who knows how many miles as the odometer does register anymore, it sometimes (2-3 times as year) might start with a jump, the windows are frozen down in the winter and up in the summer with no air conditioning, there’s no power steering fluid as the receptacle won’t hold it, and oh by the way, what you are paying for is a 2 hour rental of this beauty. That was also my college car for 2 years.

For those who are practiced in the art and science of thinking and can run consequences and sequels through their minds as they contemplate harboring anxiety and thanksgiving in the same place, you know how this comes out. Some of you may have to do the exercise this week.

Others have eyes to see that those two—anxiety and thanksgiving—don’t play together. It’s one or the other, or as in the ancient Spence household, it was one or tuther.

Some of you will have to try this yourselves, but I am going to proffer this without waiting for your exercise. You can’t be anxious and thankful at the same time.

You can’t be anxious and thankful at the same time!

Rick Warren—the Purpose Driven Life author and Saddleback church pastor—says if you can worry, you can pray.  You can worry and pray at the same time, but your prayers would lack trust.

It’s like telling God, “I think I got myself into something this time that’s bigger than you are.”

God told me many times in his word not to worry or be anxious.

Do you ever wonder if God uses any of our modern terms to explain things? I don’t think he does. He calls pastors and teachers to do this. Since Jeremiah took the potter and the clay, let’s try something nautical.

Have you ever been on a big ship?  Let’s get some nautical basics.  Hold up your left hand. That’s port. Now hold up your right. That’s starboard.

The rear of the ship is aft. The front is fore. That’s easy.

Where the ship comes to a point in the front, usually a few decks, that’s called the bow.  This is the “I’m the king of the world” spot on the ship. It’s the forward-most point of a ship, right?

Actually, not. OK, all I can see in front of me is the ocean and the air, not a ship.

That does not mean it’s not there. Has anyone ever heard of the bulbous bow? It’s a forward projecting, generally cylindrical part of the ship that protrudes from the ship.

I have never seen that. That’s because it’s underwater. It makes breaking waves much easier as the ship moves forward.

That’s cool, but if you think we are going to general quarters or holding a man overboard drill, you’ve got another thing coming. What’s this got to do with thanksgiving?

There is a group of people in the church universal that often serves as the bulbous bow  for the body.  He is talking about the session, right?

Yes, but they are only a small part of it. I am talking about you and every other faithful servant of God who continues to gather in the assembly. We often make it easier for the rest of the church to come home—at least we should, and if you have been sleeping through the past few decades, many of those who have received the free gift of God have rejected the counsel of Hebrews and do not continue to gather.

Why is this important for us? We know those who do not gather are missing fellowship and assurance, and so much more. They are less disposed to discipleship. They are disobedient unto the Lord. We get that. We need to invite people to come and worship the Lord.

Why is this important for us? The lost need good news, but those saved by grace who do not gather need something else. What?

A stronger argument? More facts and figures? More snacks between services? More time to think it over.  A Connex box? If it actually is a Connex box, I have been the worst stumbling block ever! But that’s not it.

How about provocation?  We are supposed to provoke the disconnected. In our modern world, we have tried to emasculate this word and consider it a bad thing. If you provoke someone, you might cause a fight.  That’s what we have been indoctrinated to think. Let’s go to the verse right before the one that tells us not to stop gathering.

We will go with the New International Version first.

And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.

Now the King James Version.

And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works:

And now we go to the Revised Standard Version.

and let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works,

In earlier times, the word provoke meant to call forth. It could be to call forth thinking, action, confession, creativity, and, yes, anger. If you go to the original language, you get παροξυσμός, paroxusmos (par-ox-oos-mos').

We are to be people of action, not just for ourselves, but for the body of Christ as a whole. Here, specifically, the Bible talks about prompting, provoking, stirring up, or lighting a fire for those who have their salvation, but are not putting the word of the Lord into practice.

Why would they want to gather and worship God if what they see is worry and anxiety from those who are faithful in gathering? But, but, but… We have struggles too.

Yes, we do. We also have instructions. These are the same instructions other believers have, but who do not avail themselves of the iron sharpens iron establishment that we do.  Don’t worry. Be anxious for nothing. Take courage, Jesus has overcome the world.

We have challenges in the interrogative straight from Jesus. Who can add a single hour to our lives by worrying?

Let’s get to some scripture.

Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. That’s from the NIV

Here’s the King James Version.

Rejoice evermore.

Pray without ceasing.

In everything give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.

I looked at a bunch. I even did the Amplified Bible this time. It’s like scripture, commentary, and a message. That which is dynamic to the point of going beyond the strict translation is usually encapsulated in braces or brackets.

Rejoice always and delight in your faith; be unceasing and persistent in prayer; in every situation [no matter what the circumstances] be thankful and continually give thanks to God; for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus.

People should see thanksgiving in us. We who faithfully attend should be the most thankful people on the planet. These three translations vary somewhat but are very close in one thing.

This is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus.

What is his will? We always rejoice. We are always praying. We give thanks to God regardless of our circumstances. I like Horatio Spafford’s words; the Lord has regarded my helpless estate and shed his own blood for my soul.

Yes, sometimes we feel helpless, but in that helplessness, we give thanks. Why?

This is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus.

It’s one of those, because God said so, sort of deals. Be thankful all the time. That’s impossible. For us alone it is, but with God it is not.

But what about when we lose a loved one? What about when a loved one or anyone dies in war? What about those that we have lost?  Really, God, you want me to be thankful for that?

I know the stages of loss—denial, anger, bargaining, and acceptance. They don’t always come in that order, can be repeated, and move at a different pace for each person.  Thanksgiving is not one of the stages of loss…

But it should be in every stage.

This brings me to Memorial Day and a quote from George Patton. Yes, I went with an army guy this time. I’m weaning you off of Marine Corps analogies.

"It is foolish and wrong to mourn the men who died. Rather, we should thank God that such men lived."

We can always be thankful. But I said that we couldn’t do that on our own, only with God. That’s still correct, but who is receiving this message? To whom am I speaking?

I am most certainly talking to those who have professed Jesus as Lord and have the Spirit of God living within you. God is not only for you; he lives within you, and you can be thankful in all circumstances.

We can be thankful in all circumstances!

Much of the time, we view living the Christian life as striving for the unattainable. God said to do it this way, and we are striving to get as close as we can to the mark, knowing full well that our reach truly exceeds our grasp.

Except for rejoice always, pray all the time, and be thankful, whatever your lot in life is at the time. Be thankful in all circumstances.

This is God’s will for your life. So, for the rest of this month, I challenge you to provoke people who do not gather in the assembly of God’s people but who have professed Jesus is Lord, to come into the assembly and  love, serve, and worship their Lord.

But how? We have tried everything. Food giveaways. Trunk or Treat. Words on the wall. We haven’t done smoke coming out of the vents, yet. Please hold off a month on that one if you do try it.

How do we provoke, inspire, prompt, stir up, call forth or otherwise get those keeping company with the twin pagan gods of Apathy and Ambivalence to come into the assembly and worship with you and other believers? What will provoke them to action?

Thanksgiving!

People already see your serving the Lord. Do they see thanksgiving in you while you serve?  Do they? But, but, but, how can I be thankful when…

My boss is terrible. Be thankful. Your boss might stink, but you can be thankful you have a job.

The rent is past due. But you haven’t been evicted. The government’s laws and regulations give you some relief. Be thankful you are not on the street.

My kids are driving me crazy. Stop letting them drive. OK, they are metaphorically driving you crazy. I got it. Give thanks that you have children. They are a blessing, and as a bonus, you get to watch your grandchildren drive your own kids crazy. Be thankful that you have kids.

Maybe I can see that a little. I don’t know. None of these covers every situation and circumstance.

But this one does.

If you are not thankful, you are not living in the will of God.

You can’t say that! Who gave you that authority? You have got to retract that one!

You are right. I can’t say that on my own authority, but Paul can and he did.  If we live in the will of God, we will be thankful. Paul said:

This is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus.

Let me read that again, taking out the parts where Paul stuttered.

This is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus

If you believe that the safest place you can be is in the will of God, and that thanksgiving sits well at the center of that will, then when you are not thankful, you are not living in the will of God.

For those who want to hold on to your old selves, your comfort zones, your hate, your bitterness, your preferences in which your own understanding supplants the will of God, you are not living in the will of God.

OK, I can see that. I can’t be unforgiving or walk around with hate in my heart. I get that.

Good! Now add not being thankful to that list of things that are not in the will of God for you.

OK. I get it. May we wrap this up now?

Not without an action step towards thankfulness. This will be easy. You can pick up from where it ends as you live going forward. Let’s say Psalm 100 together. My subhead says: A psalm. For giving grateful praise.

Shout for joy to the Lord, all the earth.

   Worship the Lord with gladness;

    come before him with joyful songs.

Know that the Lord is God.

    It is he who made us, and we are his;

    we are his people, the sheep of his pasture.

Enter his gates with thanksgiving

    and his courts with praise;

    give thanks to him and praise his name.

For the Lord is good and his love endures forever;

    his faithfulness continues through all generations.

 Be thankful all of the time. Be in the will of God. Give thanks in every circumstance. This is doing things God’s way.

Amen.

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