Showing posts with label Proverbs 12. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Proverbs 12. Show all posts

Thursday, September 23, 2021

Don't be Stupid!

 

Read Proverbs 12

I could just take the week off and say there is God’s way and there is everything else.  I could do that for several chapters, but there are more nuggets than this simple but accurate dichotomy give us.

For instance, Stupid is as stupid does.

The person who hates correction is stupid.  Many grew up being told not to call anyone stupid, but Solomon tells us there is a clear exception.  It is the person who ignores the counsel of the Lord.  That’s different than being ignorant of what the Lord has to say.

It’s knowing what the Lord has to say and rejecting it outright. 

The fool declares in his heart that there is no God.

We began this journey with a simple declaration about knowledge, wisdom, instruction and discipline.

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge,

    but fools despise wisdom and instruction.

A person is a fool to despise wisdom and instruction or wisdom and discipline.  A person is stupid to hate correction.  The classifications seem harsh but realize in rejecting instruction and discipline and correction, the person that Solomon labels a fool is saying, I already know it all.  You—not even God—can teach me anything.

There is a saying going around that rings true.  A coach can help you with your mistakes but nobody can help you with your excuses.

We can only receive correction where we acknowledge a mistake or a miscue.  If we think we know it all, correction seems useless to us. 

 We have been down this road for a while and will continue on it to the end.

Listen to advice and accept discipline,

    and at the end you will be counted among the wise.

Here’s a coupling of verses that we have already studied.

Instruct the wise and they will be wiser still;

    teach the righteous and they will add to their learning.

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom,

    and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.

Wisdom—which includes prudence, discretion, knowledge, acceptance of counsel and correction—was present at the foundation of the world.   How could we reject it?

Solomon makes yet another appeal.  This one is a bit more on the blunt side than others that are more poetic.  If you reject the wisdom and counsel of the Lord, you are just stupid. Stupid!

These are not words of evangelism.  They probably won’t bring anyone to God.  They are what we have seen from Solomon before.

Wake up.  Pay attention.  Get this and get it good.  He calls out to those who are about to step off a cliff and shouts: Stop!

If you saw a loved one about to step off a dangerous cliff, would you casually comment to the person next to you, Hope he doesn’t step off or would you shout Stop!

Not everyone is about to step off of a cliff.  Some just struggle day-to-day with seeking God and his wisdom.  This whole read a chapter a day may seem daunting to some.  Others can’t find the time.  You can binge-watch something on Netflix but can’t find the time for a chapter a day.

The counsel and correction that we need to navigate this life come in seeking God and his wisdom on a daily basis. 

What I am talking about is learning to ride a bicycle. Imagine learning to ride a bicycle like climbing a mountain.  You start out in the foothills.  It’s new but not too challenging.  You probably had training wheels.

Then the lateral fail-safes came off and you started riding and you made some progress and you fell over.  You got back up and went a little farther and fell over.  This happened again and again and there were some skinned knees and bruised elbows.

Then you reached the checkout point.  What’s the checkout point?  It’s that point where you lay down the bicycle and think, If I was walking, I would already be there by now.

But, if you will pick up the bicycle and try one more time, or two more times, or a dozen more times, you find that you have crested the mountain and are on the downhill.  It is from that point forward that you go everywhere on your bicycle, even if it’s just to the end of the block.

You pop wheelies, ride with no hands on the handlebars, and put playing cards in the spokes.  You go everywhere on your bicycle, at least until you get your driver’s permit. Then you can’t remember where you left your bicycle.

But you have to get past the checkout point.  At some point when you don’t feel like you are getting anywhere, you still have to press on.

Such is the case with reading your chapter each day.  At some point, it just doesn’t click.  It seems pointless and hardly fulfilling.  It’s like, I could have had another 15 minutes of sleep, but you press on anyway and read your chapter.

If you get past your checkout point, you find that it’s not too far to where you crest the peak and are on the downhill.  It won’t be, I have to read my chapter or as is the case here, Tom is making me read my Bible.  It will be, I can hardly wait to read my chapter today and tomorrow and the next day. 

The person who hates correction is stupid, thus the one who hungers for the Lord’s correction is wise. We long to be counseled by the Word of God on a daily basis.

We have a methodology that is effective.  We could change the method at some point, but for now it produces good fruit, at least for those who pressed on through the checkout point.

To not receive the counsel of the Lord is just plain stupid. 

Solomon pounds the pulpit one more time and says pay attention.  There is God’s way and there is everything else and it’s just stupid to live in the everything else.

Tom pounds the pulpit and says press on.  Read your chapter every day, even when you don’t feel like it.

Long ago and far away I went to a 2-year school in Quantico, Virginia that lasted 6 months.  It was the drinking from a fire hose metaphor extended for half a year.

I remember one day we had 3 exams and were headed out to the field for a weekend exercise after evening chow, but before we headed out to the field, we took the Air Force Officers Qualification Test.  It wasn’t part of our curriculum, but just something the services did to see how the services compared to each other, at least as far as entry criteria.

The captain administering the test said that traditionally, Marine officers didn’t do too well.  I thought, could it be because you don’t give us the test until we are already brain dead?

But the drinking from a firehose continued for six months.  It was hard to tell if you had learned anything because you were already learning the next thing, but for the next 20 years, I had an internal library to call upon.  It had registered and been cataloged and was available for retrieval.

In between the plethora of golden nuggets that compose the Proverbs are Solomon’s reminders to stay the course.  Pay attention.  Listen to my words. Don’t be stupid!

My counsel is to press on through the checkout point.  It gets easier and your desire to receive the counsel and correction of the Lord grows.

There is God’s way and there is everything else and you will grow hungry for God’s way, including his correction.

Let me put it this way.  Yes, it is stupid to live in the everything else, but seldom does negative motivation get you up the hill and past the checkout point.

So let’s put this in the positive reinforcement mode.  Desiring the correction of God’s way is wise.  Be numbered among the wise.

Amen.

The Prudent Overlook an Insult

 

Read Proverbs 12

I’m jumping ahead a few chapters to get to one of my favorite verses.

As iron sharpens iron,

    so one person sharpens another.

Why couldn’t I wait?  It is good company for a coupling of verses we find in this twelfth chapter. This chapter poses the dichotomy of the wise and the foolish once again.

The way of fools seems right to them,

    but the wise listen to advice.

Fools show their annoyance at once,

    but the prudent overlook an insult.

As we continue in the Proverbs, so too the counsel continues.

Do not answer a fool according to his folly,

    or you yourself will be just like him.

So the topic of this short message is…

FACEBOOK and other online traps.

There is value in discussion, even argument, between people who seek God and his kingdom and his righteousness and surely his wisdom.  Discourse between and among godly people, who are seeking not only the best solution for a problem but personal growth, is valuable.

We help each other grow in intelligent discourse.  Civil discourse is good discussion and a fertile ground for growth.  We who belong to Christ Jesus are blessed to grow in his grace.  That means that we can make mistakes and he will never kick us to the curb.

God already took into account our brilliance and our stupidity when he claimed us as his own. He did tell us through Solomon that some things just don’t help us grow.  Arguing with a fool is one of those things.

This seems harsh, to pass on a discussion because we consider someone to be a fool.  Are we not counseled to avoid calling someone a fool?

We are, but we are also counseled not to engage a fool.  How do we know if we have encountered a fool?  Here are two indicators that Solomon saw fit to share.

First, the fool always thinks that he is right.  His way always seems right to him.  That’s just human nature.  Our way seems right to us, but we who seek wisdom will listen to counsel—especially godly counsel—and are not married to our way.

Second, the fool is annoyed immediately when someone disagrees with him.  Do you remember quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger? The fool is upset as his first course of action.  He is primed to respond. He is quick to answer and with anger.  Listening gets in the way.

Our counsel is, scroll on—let it go. There is no profit to be had here.  Any fruit that comes from further engagement will be rotten.  Move on.

But, but, but…I can’t leave it alone.  You don’t know what he just said. 

The prudent overlook an insult.

Long ago and not too far away, I was a Leadership for Life instructor for The Oklahoman.  For all of the games they played with circulation numbers, they did try to do some positive things.  One of them was the Leadership for Life program.

One afternoon, the company had arranged for Sherri Coale to come and speak to the instructors.  I figured it was worth the drive to the Edmond office and I didn’t even wear my OSU tie.

Sherri talked about many things but her best anecdote was from when she was a new high school basketball coach.  There was one man who always gave her flak regardless of what she did.  He would argue anything, anytime, and anywhere.

Sherri said the thought of what he would confront her with next darkened every day whether she saw him or not.  She finally went to one of the more experienced coaches and shared what was happening.

The older coach told her concisely, Don’t wrestle with the pigs.  You will both get muddy, but the pigs love it.

The prudent overlook an insult.

This was solid counsel that I am sure Sherri kept with her all of her years.  We followed the OU girls for a while, went to see them in a regional tournament at whatever the basketball arena is called now, and enjoyed watching Sherri coach.

I thought she was a good coach but could only shake my head at the commentators when the Sooner girls didn’t get the win.  The talking heads started talking about what heels she wore for the game and maybe she should have paid more attention to coaching.

The prudent overlook an insult.

You have purposeful things to do with your life.  Wasting time arguing with someone—even someone who insults you or your position on something or which heels your decided to wear today—someone who will neither listen nor consider your thoughts is a waste of time.  Chances are that the other person gets entertainment value out of wasting your time.

You have purposeful things to do.

I don’t avoid going online.  Sometimes I am very provocative, but I pick my conversation partners carefully.

The careful use of provocation can lead to creativity but the foolish are only annoyed by thoughts that engage the mind.

You have purposeful things to do.  Your time is wasted, not invested, in arguing with a fool.  There is no, Well done good and faithful servant at the end of an argument with a fool.

I love a good discussion.  I enjoy civil discourse.  If you find a partner who is quick to listen then you are blessed, especially in this age of insults.  Those folks are one in a million. 

Most people don’t discuss.  They degrade.  Discussion takes work.  Put-downs come easy.

You have purposeful things to do.

The prudent overlook an insult.

You have purposeful things to do.

Amen.