Thursday, December 19, 2019

Joseph son of David



For those who have served as liturgist, this is one of those times in the year where you check the scriptures early in the week just in case there is a genealogy involved.  You might need a couple extra days to catch the flu.  These Hebrew people were sure wrapped up in their lineage.  Consider how Matthew begins his gospel.

1 This is the genealogy of Jesus the Messiah the son of David, the son of Abraham:

2 Abraham was the father of Isaac,

Isaac the father of Jacob,

Jacob the father of Judah and his brothers,

3 Judah the father of Perez and Zerah, whose mother was Tamar,

Perez the father of Hezron,

Hezron the father of Ram,

4 Ram the father of Amminadab,

Amminadab the father of Nahshon,

Nahshon the father of Salmon,

5 Salmon the father of Boaz, whose mother was Rahab,

Boaz the father of Obed, whose mother was Ruth,

Obed the father of Jesse,

6 and Jesse the father of King David.

David was the father of Solomon, whose mother had been Uriah’s wife,

7 Solomon the father of Rehoboam,

Rehoboam the father of Abijah,

Abijah the father of Asa,

8 Asa the father of Jehoshaphat,

Jehoshaphat the father of Jehoram,

Jehoram the father of Uzziah,

9 Uzziah the father of Jotham,

Jotham the father of Ahaz,

Ahaz the father of Hezekiah,

10 Hezekiah the father of Manasseh,

Manasseh the father of Amon,

Amon the father of Josiah,

11 and Josiah the father of Jeconiah and his brothers at the time of the exile to Babylon.

12 After the exile to Babylon:

Jeconiah was the father of Shealtiel,

Shealtiel the father of Zerubbabel,

13 Zerubbabel the father of Abihud,

Abihud the father of Eliakim,

Eliakim the father of Azor,

14 Azor the father of Zadok,

Zadok the father of Akim,

Akim the father of Elihud,

15 Elihud the father of Eleazar,

Eleazar the father of Matthan,

Matthan the father of Jacob,

16 and Jacob the father of Joseph, the husband of Mary, and Mary was the mother of Jesus who is called the Messiah.

17 Thus there were fourteen generations in all from Abraham to David, fourteen from David to the exile to Babylon, and fourteen from the exile to the Messiah.

What’s in a name?  We could scroll ahead and note that Jesus is the name above all names.  But what about for us?

If your mother called you by all three names, you knew that you had crossed over some line somewhere in the past couple of minutes. First, middle, and last name in rapid succession was not good news.

What’s in a name?

Joseph likely went through most of his young life known as Joseph bar Jacob.  Joseph was the son of Jacob.  The whole who’s your daddy thing wasn’t a thing because you daddy’s name was part of your name, at least for the guys.

It was something of a big deal.  It was defining and perhaps even limiting.  Your father was a carpenter or a fisherman or a shepherd.  That’s probably what you will be.  Your lineage often defined your life, at least your livelihood.

It’s not like while dad was out fishing, you were home playing video games.  When dad was sure that you probably wouldn’t drown, you were out in the boat catching fish with him.  Even if you were too young to pull in the net, you were there.  This was who you were and who you would be.

You were either in school leaning the Torah or out doing what dad did, until what dad did was what you did.

We can’t really conceive of that life.  We live in this sweet land of liberty.  You can be whatever you set your heart and mind on seems to be our modern mantra, at least until the last decade.

These days you don’t even need to decide if you identify as a boy or a girl until your 15.  Who your parents are and what they do or don’t do is not as much a part of who you are as it was two thousand years ago.

We have spent hundreds of millions of dollars on studies about how your family and social situation impact your chances to be successful, however success is defined for that particular study.  But who do we invite to speak at our graduations and special events?

It is often someone who in spite of where they started or who their family was or what was stacked against them, achieved their dreams.  Some had addicts and alcoholics for mothers and fathers. Some never knew they parents.  Some bounced from home to home as their parents didn’t want them, but they are invited to speak and share because their starting point did not define what they did with their lives.

But in this other time that we don’t really understand, who your father was might not have ensured that what you would be, but that’s how you placed your bets.

Joseph, son of Jacob, was looking forward to being the man of the house.  He was engaged to Mary and I’m sure both had good plans for their lives together.  Mary probably looked forward to having a husband who could make her a new dining room set every year for her birthday.

But an angel visit and the advent of the Holy Spirit upon young Mary changed all of that. Imagine Mary telling Joseph that she was pregnant.  I’m sure that Joseph didn’t hear anything after that.  His mind was probably running wild with scenarios.  He’s surely thinking that he is going to have at least one friend who is going to be unfriended.

This whole business of this being a divine conception probably never fully registered.  The proverb trust in the Lord with all of your heart gave way to part two because I think Joseph was leaning fully on his own understanding.

My wife to be is knocked up.  I know how that works and it wasn’t me.  I’m sure Joseph heard Mary’s explanation.  I don’t think Joseph thought Mary was making up a story but what she told him was beyond belief.  She had to be lying, right?

But Joseph was not a vindictive man.  He followed the law.  He surely wanted to do what God told him to do.  He had a little discretion in this matter.  He could make a big deal out of this or just quietly divorce his wife.

He didn’t need to make a big deal out of this.  A single mom—not a widow but an unmarried mother—would have a tough enough road ahead of her.  He would be discreet and this would be his measure of compassion in the matter.

Joseph is surely trying to get on with his life.  His hopes and dreams would have to wait.  His buddies were likely telling him there are other fish in the sea, at least when they weren’t giving him a hard time.

Surely there would be someone else one day.


A man’s heart plans his way,
but the Lord determines his steps.

And an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and told Joseph that all of that the Holy Spirit got me pregnant bit that Mary was feeding him was legit.  You go right ahead and marry her.  Finish what was started some time ago.

If you are Joseph, you might be thinking, “Did I eat too many jalapenos last night?  I knew that I should not have gone to the bar with the guys to commiserate my life.  It’s messing up my sleep.”

But Joseph knew this was an angel of the Lord.  The angel addressed him as Joseph son of David.  Did an angel not know that this was Joseph son of Jacob?

Of course, he did.  That’s like basic angelology.  You learn lineages and how to say Fear Not!  That’s a given for angels.

The message to Joseph was not just to take Mary as his wife but to begin to show Joseph that he was a part of something much bigger than himself or Mary or his plans up to this point.

Joseph son of David were words to awaken Joseph to the story of God’s love unfolding through him.  Joseph son of David would not have been the normal address for this young man, well, except maybe as a friendly barb from his friends.

After throwing three gutter balls in a row while bowling with his friends, someone might have chided him by saying Joseph son of David while doubled over in laughter. 

But the angel connected Joseph with the greater story taking place in the persons of Mary and Joseph.

Matthew begins his gospel and begins the Christmas story with a lineage that goes not only back to David but to Abraham as well.  Fourteen generations from Abraham to David.  Fourteen from David to the exile in Babylon.  Fourteen from Babylon to the Messiah.

You have to jump over to Luke’s gospel if you want to go back to Adam, but the angel let Joseph know that something big was happening now and through both he and Mary.

So Joseph did what he was told.  He did not consummate the marriage in the physical way until after the birth of the Messiah, but he was husband to Mary.

Joseph learned what it was to trust in the Lord with all of his heart and lean not on his own understanding.  And since we see that he lived out Proverbs 3:5, let’s consider the next verse.  In all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight.

The Lord would show him his next steps.  This was a whole new thing.  Joseph knew that he was a part of something big.  Did he know it would be the greatest story ever told?  Maybe, but probably not. 

But that God had chosen parents from the line of David for this great thing was enough for him. 

What’s in a name?

Those skeptical of Jesus after he began his ministry would ask, isn’t this the son of the carpenter?

But we know more of the story than those people.  We know that we are sons and daughters of the King who happens to be the King of kings.

We are brothers and sisters with Christ.

What’s in a name?

Consider addressing someone you know by their first name followed by daughter of the King.

Consider how you would feel if you are addressed by your first name followed by brother of the Christ.

What’s in a name?  Joseph son of David—King David—revealed to Joseph that he was part of something big.  He and his wife, Mary, would be central in the greatest story ever told.

We are part of something big.  We have been trusted with what we call the Great Commission.

We are commanded to love as Christ loved.

Just as Joseph obeyed the command of God delivered by the angel, so too must we do out part in this story of God’s love for us.

Genealogies help us look back.  They give us some identity.  But our part of the story goes forward.  Our Father is God whom we know best by his Son would died to take away our sin and the Holy Spirit who lives within us now.

We are part of something big.  We are part of the greatest story ever told.
Let us celebrate the birth of the Christ child as God with us.

Let us go forward with the commission and command that he gave us.

Amen!

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