Read Genesis 38
Just when you thought it was safe to
go back in the water…
Judah, the brother who came up with
the bright idea to sell Joseph into slavery and make a couple bucks, decided to
go live on his own.
Judah took a Canaanite wife. It seems that this business of going back
east to get a wife had come to an end. We don’t know her name but we know the
names of the 3 sons born of this union.
They were Er, Onan, and Shelah.
Judah got a wife for his oldest
son. Surely that was preceded by a
bicycle and, a baseball glove, but now it was time for a wife and Judah picked
out a local girl. Her name was Tamar.
The problem was in the quality control
department, and with the husband not the wife.
The first son, Er, was wicked and God took him out of the picture before
a child was conceived.
Judah told his second son, Onan, to
give Tamar a child. It was his duty as
the oldest surviving brother. He wasn’t
too keen on this idea, so he practiced the first form of birth control that we
see in the Bible.
God did not approve, so that was it
for Onan.
Now Judah had only Shelah and he was
too young for marriage and making children. So, Judah told Tamar to live in his
household until Shelah was old enough to marry her. She did.
We are told that after a long time,
Judah’s wife—still unnamed—died. After
Judah recovered from his grief, he went out to check on his sheep. It was time for sheep shearing.
Tamar got wind of this and went ahead
of him to a place called Enaim. She was veiled and not wearing her widow’s
clothing.
What was she thinking? The third son, Shelah, had grown up and was
of marrying age but Judah had not given Tamar to him. What’s up with that? What had she been waiting on all this time?
In any case, the stage was set. Judah was headed to Timnah. Tamar picked out a spot near the road at the
entrance to Enaim. For general
reference, this was about 25 miles west, northwest of Bethlehem.
Judah saw her and thought she was a
prostitute. Evidently, there was a pagan
shrine in these parts and he thought she was a prostitute for the local
shrine.
If your wife is dead and you are on
the road with your buddy and the opportunity presents itself, then you tell your
buddy that you will be back in a few.
Judah wasn’t carrying any cash and
Tamar would not take American Express.
He had to leave a pledge that he would pay her. The agreed-upon price was one young goat.
The pledge for that goat would be some
personal items—his seal and the cord that goes with it along with his staff.
Judah got what he wanted and Tamar got
pregnant.
We don’t know the status of the sheep
shearing but Judah returned home with his friend and sent his friend, Hirah the
Adullamite, to deliver the goat.
He couldn’t find the prostitute. The men in the area said that couldn’t
remember there ever being a shrine prostitute there. Hirah came come and told Judah.
Judah said, well we tried.
A few months later, Judah received a
report that Tamar was pregnant. It must
have been from prostitution as she wasn’t married.
There was little hesitation in Judah’s
decision. Burn her! The penalty for adultery—not
specifically prostitution—was death for both parties, but Tamar was the only
guilty party available.
As she was being carried away to her
execution, she sent a message to her father-in-law in the form of the items
left as a pledge. They were Judah’s seal
and cord and staff. Her message was that
these belong to the man who got me pregnant.
I don’t think the word Oops was
in the lexicon of the people of that time until that very moment. Judah
realized the entirety of his error. He
had not given Tamar to his third son as he promised and had pronounced a
sentence upon Tamar that appropriately would have been for him too.
Tamar gave birth to twin sons. There was a little tussle to see who would
emerge first and it was Perez.
Zerah came out second. In Zerah’s family Bible, the lineage states
that Zerah was born second and Perez was born next to last.
What does all of this mean?
If you go to the first
chapter of Matthew’s gospel, you will find the lineage of the Christ. You need only go 3 verses until you see
Judah, Tamar, and Perez. In Luke’s
gospel, the genealogy goes all the way back to Adam and includes Judah and Perez
but does not include Tamar. Women seldom
received much billing in the Bible.
Later in Genesis, Judah is described
by his father as a lion.
The
Lion of the Tribe of Judah is Jesus Christ.
Why do we care?
Jesus—yes Savior of the world
Jesus—came through a line that went through Judah. None of Judah’s sons continued the line.
Judah and Tamar did.
Judah, who had the bright idea to sell
his brother, Joseph, into slavery is in the line of the Christ.
Judah, who made a quick stopover with
a woman he thought was a prostitute on his way to see how the sheep shearing
was going, is in the line of the Christ.
Judah, who in all his
self-righteousness was going to put his daughter-in-law to death for
prostitution, is in the line of the Christ.
Judah, who had two sons by his
daughter-in-law, is in the line of the Christ.
Tamar, who didn’t have a son by her
first 2 husbands, is in the line of the Christ.
Tamar, who dressed up like a
prostitute and fulfilled the role of a prostitute, is in the line of the
Christ.
Tamar, who had 2 sons by her
father-in-law, is in the line of the Christ.
Tamar, who was a single mother—Judah
never married her, was in the line of the Christ.
We have begun the story of
Joseph. We know that in the end, he
saves much of the known world. Wouldn’t
he have been a better candidate to be in the line of the Savior of the World?
But while God was working through
Joseph to save a very large portion of the world in Joseph’s time; he was also
setting the course to save all humankind with the advent of Jesus.
So what are our takeaways?
Let’s start with if you are on your
way to a sheep shearing, always bring cash.
How about, insurance policies come in
many forms. The Seal, Cord, and Staff
policy was a lifesaver for Tamar. I
think it was a Liberty Mutual policy.
You only pay for what your need.
How about, if God decides he will use
you for his purpose, then he will use you for his purpose. Neither your accomplishments nor life choices
will qualify or disqualify you from serving God if he has called you to accomplish
his purpose.
How about, we don’t always see the big
picture. That one should sound familiar.
How about, sometimes our own devious
natures can be used for good in God’s plan.
We have seen this one in play since Abram.
We shouldn’t try to be devious,
dishonest, destructive, deceptive or even words that don’t begin with the
letter “d.” We need to understand that
our human frailty does not disqualify us for God’s work.
I have shared this a couple of
times. You have seen variations on the
internet or on the back of a tee shirt but consider this anew this morning as
we consider the people that God chose.
Noah was a drunk
Abraham was too old
Jacob was a deceiver
Leah was not good looking
Joseph was abused
Moses had a stuttering problem and was
a murderer
Gideon was afraid
Samson was a womanizer
Rahab was a prostitute
David had an affair and was a murderer
Elijah was suicidal
Isaiah preached naked
Jonah ran from God
Naomi was a widow
Job went bankrupt
Peter denied Christ
The Disciples fell asleep while
praying with Jesus
Martha worried about everything
The Samaritan woman was divorced many
times
Zacchaeus was too small
Jesus called the disciples dull--slow
Judas would betray him
Paul was too religious
Timothy had an ulcer
Lazarus was dead
Judah and Tamar were a Netflix series
waiting to happen. In fact, I have already written the first three seasons.
Don’t think that God won’t use you to
complete his plan. Be ready to respond to the leading that God’s Spirit
places on your heart.
If God was looking for reasons to
disqualify you from doing his work, he could find them without much effort. We all fall short but disqualifying us for
his service is just not his thing.
Yes, there are some judgments for
wickedness along the way, but God is not looking to disqualify you from serving
him. You have what it takes to do his
will.
He chose you—with all of your flaws
and defects—to do his will, to live out his plan. He chose you in spite
of everything that you might think reasons that he wouldn’t.
He chose you.
Trust in the Lord with all of your
heart! We know that part.
Now, let’s live in a way that brings
glory to God. That’s part of the plan.
Amen.